So, we must admit all couples disagree on things in a relationship. It can be something small as picking the right paint for your living room to something more serious like money.
When couples have disagreements some tend to try and make the other see their point of view but they are not willing to listen to the others point of view. If it escalates to one person not listening to the other then it goes up a level where one person is talking over the other and if you don't stop it here as you both are obviously getting heated about the discussion then it will turn into a screaming fest. When this happens you may begin to say some things you can't take back. Once it goes to the level where your talking over each other then the both of you must stop and separate until the two of you are calm enough to discuss the issue. Once your calm you can then come back together and discuss the issue and either come to an agreement or at least a compromise.
A relationship equals two people not just one. This in turn means one person can't always get their way. To make a relationship work you must compromise at times because if you don't the relationship will turn into a dysfunctional, fighting mess.
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