I wanted to bring this question to you ladies and have you mull over it as this was a recent question by singer/actor Tyrese to TV Personality Lala Vasquez, "Why are you only hanging around single women?" That at least was the basis of the question.
This question hits home for a lot of women and I would like to know where most of you fabulous women stand on this. I personally think it depends on where every one's mindset is.
Now, in my own personal situation I don't have as much contact with single friends. Not saying that I don't hang out with them, that's not the case at all. We still meet up for lunches and dinners but there are some things they may be into as single women that I am not into. This is common in most cases as the club hopping life amongst other things doesn't seem appealing anymore. Now even though we may not be into the exact same things anymore that doesn't mean the friendship has to end it just means you have to respect my decisions and vice versa.
Now, I have also noticed one or two of my single friends have stopped calling because I became engaged. I had a situation where a "friend" wanted to act like the fiance didn't exist, literally. There are so many ways things can turn out. My point is there should be a balance with having married friends who can relate to you, while being able to have single friends who respect you and you respect them.
So ladies, single friends while married/engaged or not?
Stay Fab!
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